Finding Balance

I don’t like spiders and snakes……and that ain’t what it takes to love me. (sorry but it’s a catchy tune) I recently have been seeing spiders. Real spiders in my house, fake spiders, pictures of spiders. Spiders everywhere, including the...

Life can change in an instant

A little over a year ago, January 2, 2017 to be exact, a month and a half after losing my mom to breast cancer, I separated from my husband. Our divorce became final in October. For most of 2017, I was in a very dark place. There were breaks of sunshine here and...

Using My Voice

So here I am, 7 months since that first blog post. I am in a new house (with my ex in the in-law apartment next door, yes really) and I am slowly making it feel like home. It is taking some time, but I am ok with that. Two steps forward, one step back. For the most...

What to blog about?

March 17, 2017 Grief. I wasn’t really sure what I wanted my first blog post to be about. Grief? I lost my mom almost 4 months ago, so yes. Divorce? I’m currently in the process of one, yes, that would work too. Breaking up with your best friend? Yep, that happened...